#Featured #Lifestyle

Can I Just Live?

Current Frustration: Housing!

For the last year and few months I have been trying to buy my first home. I have encountered obstacle after obstacle. You don’t make enough. You make too much. Your debt to income ration is too high. Your student loan is hurting you. FHA rules changed. Conventional loans changed. APR’s rise, then drop and back up again. You gotta worry about HOA’s and home owner’s insurance. Now 45 fucking shit up! And let’s not even mention the average price of homes in San Diego…. ughhh!!!!! According to Zillow, a real estate and rental marketplace dedicated to empowering consumers with data, “The median home value in San Diego County [as of January 2017] is $530,900 . . . values have gone up 6.2% over the past year and Zillow predicts they will rise 1.5% within the next year.”  You get the picture! This process is a bitch, to say the least!

So, I am still trying, but my current housing situation isn’t ideal and it can be a beast of a frustration all on its own. So I start to think, well, maybe it’s time to take the inherent  “L,” for now, and look for an apartment rental. Should be worth it for my sanity, right? I hate moving! But as I listen to the shouting and pointless arguing happening on the other side of the wall at my current place, I decide that’s solid a YES!

I start searching for a two-bedroom rental, cuz I can’t share just one room with a grown man-child and an actual child, who’s five, but has the attitude of a 14-year-old… I would literally kill one of them, but most likely both. Yeah. For sure both!

I quickly realized renting in San Diego is ridiculously expensive too. According to Rent Jungle, an online rent database, “As of January 2017, average apartment rent within the city of of San Diego, CA is $2113. One bedroom apartments in San Diego rent for $1754 a month on average and two bedroom apartment rents average $2240.” When the hell did the cost of living increase so much in San Diego? I know I moved away for 5-years, but got-damn!!!!!! (YES, that deserved extra exclamation points.)  Back before I moved away, with the kind of money I make now, I could have more-than-comfortably paid rent on a two-bedroom. Now, (insert pause and downloaddisbelief emoji) WTF? Looking for places, in neighborhoods that use to be considered [San Diego] hood-as-fuck, before I left, want me to give them an arm, leg, both eyeballs, sell some rock on the block, ass on the weekends, Oh and probably UBER, to be able to just damn near make it.

For this shit, I could’ve stayed my ass in Brooklyn, where at least I knew what the hell I was paying premium rent for. That spectacular view of the city and the Brooklyn Bridge of course! Alicia keys sang, “[Those] streets will make you feel brand new, big lights will inspire you,” that atmosphere absolutely filled my soul and motivated me like no other. Here I get to pay $1500-a-month for a one-bedroom and some mediocrity. And please don’t come at me with the “we pay for the weather” bullshit cuz constant sunshine and 70 degrees is not normal and fucks with my mood. Give me cloudy days and the SEASONS!

I need to know, how the hell anyone is doing better than just surviving out there? This is not a rhetorical question.

What blocks are y’all at? I’m not ready to step on toes . . .

Credit: Giphy.com


Credit: Giphy.com

Check out some of my sources below:

Zillow  and Rent Jungle

About Lily Z.

Talking what comes to mind via blogs or on your radio! Read up on TeamTrueStory.com, Lilyrz.Wordpress.com. Follow on social @LilyOnAir or catch me on your radio in San Diego!

4 comments on “Can I Just Live?

  1. CabSuave

    I feel your pain. Growing up in East New York, Brooklyn, I’ve seen the rent go from something like $1000/mo to $1650/mo for a studio the size of a closet’s closet!! Not right!! Especially considering East New York is probably the LAST neighborhood in all of NYC with a Starbucks (I’d say Barnes and Noble’s, too, but there isn’t one of those ANYWHERE north of 86th street in Manhattan 🤔🤔🤔)..

    Maybe looking for a home to buy is your best bet!

    Liked by 3 people

  2. CabSuave

    Edit: East New York is the last neighborhood in NYC *WITHOUT* a Starbucks.

    Liked by 2 people

    • Lol I am familiar with ENY. And yeah, no starbucks in sight! When I first moved out to ny for school, I moved into a very large 1br apartment in bedstuy… on dekalb @ marcy… $1150 a month. 4th floor walk up but had lots of closet space and a great view of the city. This was pre-Barclays center opening… after I moved out at the end of 2014, they were renting the place out for $1800. I was initially planning on staying out there but even rent in Brownsville was around $1500 for a 2br. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

      Liked by 1 person

What are Your thought? Leave a Reply...

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: